An article I kept seeing popping up in my Twitter feed over the past few days was titled “Lizzo rocks tiny red bikini while on vacation in Brazil” and was accompanied by a couple of photos of Lizzo on a beach wearing a red bikini. And while part of me was like, “good for her” and was pleasantly surprised to see a positive headline there was another part of me that felt really uncomfortable about the whole thing. I spent altogether too much time trying to figure out exactly what about it made me uncomfortable. No, it wasn’t that she was wearing a bikini, I wear a bikini when I go to the beach and I have no problem with other people wearing bikinis, I’m not a total prude.
My problem with it is, that I don’t think it’s cool for us to be publicly judging people’s bodies, regardless of their size, and regardless of whether or not that judgement is positive or negative. I hate seeing those magazines at the grocery store checkouts that are plastered with paparazzi shots of famous people on beaches and are either commenting on their cellulite or their hotness. Just because someone is famous that doesn’t mean their bodies belong to the public domain. It doesn’t mean that they’ve granted us permission to share photos of them during their personal time and pass judgement on them. And just because those judgements happen to be fat-positive it doesn’t make them any more acceptable. Yes, it’s great that Lizzo is confident and is a positive role model but that doesn’t make it okay for us to intrude on her personal vacation and it doesn’t make it okay for us to comment on her body. Frankly, other people’s bodies are none of our business.